Community guidelines
What is expected here, and what will get an account removed.
Be a real person
Use your own photos and your real age. Impersonation, catfishing, and accounts run on someone else’s behalf are removed.
You must be 18 or over
This is not negotiable and is not a matter of judgement. Accounts belonging to minors are removed immediately, and reports of underage users are prioritised above everything else.
Consent runs through everything
No unsolicited sexual content. No pressure, no repeat contact after someone disengages, and no sharing of private messages or images from a conversation.
Sharing or threatening to share an intimate image of someone without their consent is treated as one of the most serious things you can do here. It leads to removal, and where the law allows we will assist the person affected and the authorities.
Not permitted
These result in removal, usually without warning:
- Harassment, threats, intimidation, stalking, or hate speech
- Sexual content involving minors, in any form, and any attempt to contact a minor
- Sexual exploitation, including offering or requesting sex for money, and any form of trafficking
- Non-consensual intimate images, and sharing another member’s private information
- Scams and fraud: asking for money, gifts, financial details or payments, investment “opportunities”, or moving a conversation off the platform to do any of these
- Spam, bulk or automated messaging, bots, scrapers, and manipulating likes, matches, credits, referrals or moderation
- Content depicting violence or encouraging self-harm
- Promotion of external services, and any use of the platform for an illegal purpose
Meeting people safely
Keep conversations on the platform until you are comfortable, meet in public places, tell someone where you are going, and do not share your home address or financial details with someone you have not met. If something feels wrong, block and report — you do not owe anyone an explanation.
How enforcement works
Automated rules flag content for review. A person makes the decision on anything serious — we do not let automation suspend or ban accounts on its own.
Depending on what happened we may remove content, restrict features, suspend an account or ban it permanently, and we may report unlawful activity to law enforcement. If we get it wrong, you can appeal, and a different reviewer looks at it.